The Next Story Of A Squirter
We move onto another account of female ejaculation by a 22-year-old woman who’d been on a couple of dates with an adorable man who was “very sexually attractive” to her. After a few dates they were getting sexually intimate, and the second time they had sex she had a squirting orgasm and suddenly ejaculated.
How did it go? She could feel his fingers moving inside of her, although she “didn’t know what he was doing in there” – but whatever it was, he was certainly successful. She “felt a huge surge of fluid building up” which then poured out and went everywhere, with her reaching orgasm seconds after the ejaculation.
She hadn’t experienced this before, and she sat up in confusion – looking at the bedsheets, soaked with fluid, convinced that she’d urinated. As she said, however, the fluid didn’t have any characteristics of urine. However, nor was it the fluid that she recognized as coming out from her vagina when she was really turned on.
But without even needing to understand what the fluid was, she said she was in awe of her squirting orgasms, caused, she thinks, by “the angle and size of his fingers”.
There are plenty of stories about squirting orgasms which resemble this on the website – the question is, do they mean anything? I think they do, because they are consistent and (assuming they aren’t written by men fantasizing about what women might do during a squirting orgasm), some of them have a certain level of authenticity.
For example, here’s a description of how a woman woke up one day with her boyfriend feeling horny, and they started trying sex in different positions. She said she was “on fire, living in the moment, not thinking about anything but pleasure”. Somehow she knew or felt instinctively that she was going to go to a place she’d never been before – then she started feeling that special spot inside vagina – it was her G spot being stimulated.
In the past, she says, all her orgasms had come from clitoral stimulation, but this she knew this was different as soon as she began to feel it. This sensation was so powerful in fact that she pulled herself away from his penis, and as she did so, she felt a liquid squirting from her vagina.
You might have seen videos of female ejaculation on the Internet where the woman shakes uncontrollably as she has an orgasm and ejaculates.
And indeed this woman reports the exact same thing – shaking and squirting. The interesting thing is that she says it didn’t feel like she was urinating. And indeed, she wasn’t.
So what happened next? Well, she started to analyse the experience and realized that she’d helped herself to enjoy squirting orgasms by “letting go” (of inhibitions), and by “fully diving into the sensation”.
What’s more, she let go of fear, shame and worry about what was happening, and simply allowed herself to feel the love, the passion and the sensations of the moment.
Another account describes how a man suggested to a woman that her problem with sex was lack of orgasm. They weren’t having much sex, and she wasn’t having many orgasms, although she was able to bring herself off using an Hitachi magic wand.
Sure, she says, she’d heard of the phenomenon of female ejaculation, and even seen the videos of squirting orgasms. (You know the ones – gushing liquid pouring out from between a screaming girl’s legs.)
As she says, these movies certainly looked interesting, but ejaculation, gushing or squirting was a completely foreign concept to her. At the time she wasn’t even having regular orgasms.
And then things changed. She met a man. And even though he wasn’t very attractive physically, she found the chemistry between them to be electric. Indeed, it was “f*cking magical”.
During their first sexual encounter, she had eight orgasms. Her body loved him from the start. She was astonished and speechless, her body was revealing her ability to have orgasms, and it did things she’s never expected or experienced before – including squirting.
In fact, she squirted copiously. Curious, she tasted the liquid, which was clear, colourless, odourless, and a little sweet. Yes, as all the experts tell us – definitely not pee.
Later, this man, who had prompted her body to experience female ejaculation, became her boyfriend and helped her to explore the phenomenon of squirting orgasms in different ways.
This is the Amrita of which the Tantric therapists and practitioners have known for long time – Amrita meaning divine nectar.
And, oddly enough, she relates the story of her visit to a gynecologist, who offered no explanation about what was happening except to observe that “once you become squirter, you’re always a squirter”. Oh…..
Our intrepid journalist also tells us that she now empties her bladder before sex to be sure she’s not urinating.
Yet the amount of fluid ejaculated can be rather shocking. It is, she says, all about bearing down when “the sensation” comes instead of clenching up. And, she adds, a woman needs to feel safe with her partner and completely relaxed with him (or I guess, her) – because this is a process which involves letting go and being vulnerable.
Video – Squirting
Oral Sex: How To Make A Girl Squirt
What we call “giving head” is a term used for pleasuring your partner – that means bringing her to orgasm – using your lips, tongue and mouth on the genitals – specifically on her clitoris and vaginal opening.
How to enjoy giving head
Naturally enough, when you try this you will find both of you enjoy the experience, because it’s natural for men to be aroused by oral sex, and it’s possibly easier for women to reach orgasm.
You see, unlike men, women can (and do) go on and have more sexual pleasure after they’ve reached orgasm – and their descent from the heights of orgasm to normal levels of arousal can be quite slow.
Hygiene Is Important
So when a man is good at pleasuring a woman orally, he may find that she wants to have intercourse with him after he’s brought her to orgasm. Either way, this is a very intimate experience that can bond a couple and bring them much closer together. However for many men – and indeed a lot of women – one of the problems here is that there is a perception that female genitals can be offensively smelly or taste and pleasant.
The truth of the matter is different – this is simply not the case: it’s only when the genitals aren’t clean that they can smell a little unpleasant. So take a quick shower together before sexual activity, and that can make the whole experience very pleasurable for both parties. Then the woman can relax, not worrying about whether she’s clean or not, and the man can enjoy licking her in this most intimate of all places.
Many men will find that this oral pleasure – oral sex or cunnilingus – is very arousing.
Indeed, people have said that it’s actually quite normal for a man to reach orgasm when he’s giving a woman oral pleasure. And many men feel very attuned to the sexual arousal of your partner as they pleasure a woman in this way. And, surprisingly, it is possible for man to reach orgasm – simply through the arousal that he experiences as he is licking his partner’s vulva. She, too, becomes more and more aroused. That’s because her arousal will tend to follow his, and vice versa. It’s positive feedback! However, good sex isn’t just about oral sex – the real point about this is that it’s a good prelude to intercourse for both men and women like.
For most men, the importance of this approach is that you can bring a woman to orgasm easily. She will then be ready for and maybe eager to enjoy intercourse, which will allow you your release. This means there is no danger of her going unsatisfied, that is to say, not having an orgasm, if you ejaculate too quickly.